Meet The Site Owner

Hello, I’m Mecyll and I’m running Building Self.

I’m so happy you stopped by and have a look in this  awesome hub, where you can freely express yourself and share your painful past and your letting go moments—the most important event in your life.

I founded Building Self in pursuit of my personal advocacy to help people around the world I know are suffering emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically.

Through sharing my own excruciating phases of my life journey, I can inspire, motivate, drive, and push people to leave these negative stuff that blanketed them for a long time.

I know it’s tougher but it will be worth your effort. You will love the positive life!



Living under the roof of frequent verbal and emotional abuse, I can understand its agonizing effects that could last a lifetime, especially if these wounds were left unhealed.

Terms like self-esteem, self-confidence, self-worth, and self-acceptance were once alienating until the first quarter of this year. I’ve been suffering from chronic depression with a record of countless suicidal attempts over the past eight (8) years.

My health has been in a bad condition as a result of my unhealthy lifestyle and constant self-criticism.

In 2017, I took the initiative to make a gradual change for myself through letting go of these pain and start embracing the positive part of life.

Rather spending my time thinking of my “what ifs” and wishing and daydreaming of a good life, I chose to stand and face the pain with an open heart.

In this way, I could start the healing process, which I know will be difficult. I am aware that it will take me a long time or lifetime to achieve the spiritual healing I needed.

It doesn’t matter because I know I will the best life than before.

With that journey, I don’t want to be alone. I want you to be with me, holding hands until we reach the peak of the highest mountain we could climb. And get healed.

Want to begin the journey? I’ll absolutely love that.




I have a few things planned for you to participate while the site is new.

  • Share your story with me and the world through your posts. Write the most painful, unforgettable life events that happened to you and let everyone know and get inspired. See details here.
  • Take me into your world and evade your imperfect space. Grab my upcoming eBook “Take Charge: 29 Unorthodox Ways to Escape Controlled Life & Master Soul-Talk to Build Best Life.” Then, my upcoming weekly self-reflection good for 30 days.

I know you’ll gonna love what these things. They’re a great start for a new you. All yours for free. They will be available soon. So, just sign up and be the first to receive them.

Given, I’m really hopeful you’ll be inspired to embrace change. I’m willing to share what I’ve been through with positivism.

Wish you the best and be blessed with these gifts I am preparing for you. God bless you!


Holding your life torch,


Founder, Building Self